Monday, December 12, 2011

How do i make my coworker stop being such a female dog?

my coworker is SUCH a b**tch. i am on the edge. i think im developing an ulcer. i screwed up slightly a couple of times because shes so pushy she makes me anxious. couple of weeks later i do excellent work for my other coworkers shes the only one tha ti have problems with. so im the only artist in the department for like 6 people and i get along great with everyone but her. im 27 yo young mommy shes a 50 something beotch no kids and every single thing i do she says i dont do right even if i am right she never apologizes even once 'on accident' ruined my one personal belonging there. im freaking out right now i want to quit because of her she gossips and is trying to make me fail. everything i do she tells my boss about. shes the 2nd (lower) asst. director and every time we argue she throws me under a bus and says its my fault wont let me get a word in edgewise. no matter what i do now im shaking and scared. help me please? thanks.How do i make my coworker stop being such a female dog?
it's called jealousy . your a good worker and she's afraid you'll take her job try your best to ignore her and keep being nice it will drive her nuts we have tramps like that at all jobs dont give her the satisfaction of quiting .if she knows she's getting to you she wont stop kind of like a bully at school . if anything talk to your boss in private or ask her whats her problem good luck hun i know how work place problems can be .How do i make my coworker stop being such a female dog?
This isn't healthy, I rarely say this, but yell at her.

Loudly, just say'; Stop it, Right now, I'm not going to take it anymore, you are unreasonable. When you can talk to me as a coworker we can resume, until then get yourself together and don't say another word.'; Then walk away. You must learn to stand up for yourself even with bitches. You are the one with the power to stop her, that you haven't means you gave that power over to her. Take it back. You have nothing to lose, if you don't take charge you will lose your health, that's harder to get than another job, which you will have to do if you continue to let her walk all over you.
stop reacting to her behavior and send her blessings. sooner or later the positive energy will infect her.
Hi,



First don't yell at her. It would be grounds for you getting fired.



Always be nice to her, it will drive her crazy and it won't come back on you later.



Make a record of when she complains of your work or makes comments about you. Dates and times with descriptions of what was going on.



Now there is four ways to use that information.



One would be to go to her with it and calmly point out to her what she is doing. (I think it probably won't work.)



Two, go to her boss and tell them. (This could be seen as insubordination too)



Three, contact a lawyer and see if you have grounds for a harassment suit.



Four, When it gets to the point that you can't stand it any longer, quit and give the log to her boss along with the reason why you are quitting. Then leave and don't look back.



Good Luck.



TMD
Put a can of dog food on her table when she is not looking.



Seriously, analyze and evaluate the situation. Be honest with yourself. Are you working below par or is your boss unfair? If he is the latter, there is no reason why you should continue working for that business. Fire him! Ask for an exit interview and spill the beans on your boss. You are just wasting your time.



A good boss will always try to develop good people without being rude and dictatorial. Conversely, if your work is below par and has no possibility of ever improving a good boss will terminate your services immediately.



Peace and every blessing!

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