How do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?

How do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?

with feelings I have for a coworker. This coworker and I have been doing intimate(sexual things). Although, never had intercourse. We are not in a relationship, though I have deep feelings for him. He has a gf overseas.I also see him flirting with another girl who works at the office and I instantly get jealous. Also, the last time we hooked up was before New Year's 2009, after we hooked up, he told me he hopes I get a bf this year and that things work out for me since I told him I was going to see a counselor. Last week I wrote him a letter that I was hurt and angry and that I was going to mention it to my counselor, I will see her at the end of the month. Then last Thursday, I emailed him saying that I wasn't hurt and angry and that I hoped we could get along as coworkers. He didn't respond back and he didn't say anything to me, but I kept ignoring him since I didn't know what to doHow do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?
You've been getting played with %26amp; used and he actually couldn't care less. Too bad you're going to choose to not see it until you go through some more pain first. You should realize he's a jerk(cheating, flirting etc), and move on, sooner rather than later. Sorry.How do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?
He doesn't know what to do either. If hes got a girl, let him off the hook. Hes cheating on her, regardless of what it is. Do you want in on that?
your probably American, you need more therapy, or a life.
well hes a jerk cuz hes cheating on his gf with you and obviously playing with you too. youve got to forget about him. just go out with friends and keep yourself busy to get your mind off of him and try to stop talking to him.