Relationship advice needed badly....Any help on getting a girl back please?

Im a freshman in college 6 hours from my hometown. About a year ago, one of my friends was involved with a girl who is now a senior in high school. throughout their breakup, i was like the middleman. unfortunately, they ended it in january, but me and her kept talking because we are coworkers. All along i told her to make a decision regarding her ex (my friend). because she stayed in the middle of liking him but not going back with him. eventually, she started tin june rying to get me to hang out and I refused daily requests from March until Late June. it developed from online to texting, and the occasional short phone call. one night we hung out bc she said she was in trouble, and we kissed, and since then we have kept a secret relationship of sorts, without it ever being official. we hung out the majority of the summer, and when i left for college it sorta ended, but we kept talking on the phone and texting constantly. she also still sometimes got with her ex, my friend. we had one break where we hung out alot and in the following month she begged me to be with her as a couple, but i refused because it would be frowned upon by my social group. so she tried and tried and i told her it was bc her ex. so i went home for thanksgiving and she told me we should be friends, but we hung out all week and kissed and more, but everytime when i left she would say just friends...very confusing. now I want to be with her because I realized shes more important to me than my friends opinions, but she told me she wont be with me because she still ahs feelings for her ex, the one i told her to make a decision on 6 months ago. I need help on how to get her back!?!?!? Relationship advice needed badly....Any help on getting a girl back please?
it's a strange situation.. now she wants u.. now she don't..

i think that she likes u.. but only for fun, not a real relation! and because u know her ex..and is a friend of yours.. is not so nice to do this..only if is really love, but from both sides!!!

and really now..u want a relation with a girl that still thinks and meets her ex bf? u like her know and she saw this.. i think in her mind is something like: ''why not to hung out with both?'' not nice! u will be disappointed! and u will see that when u are over with this feelings for her she will want u! :)Relationship advice needed badly....Any help on getting a girl back please?
It sounds to me like she's playing with you both. First him, then you, then him again, then you again, then him again, then you're out . . . .



I don't know how old she is, but she's acting very immature. Take her at her word (that she has feelings for her ex) and ';be friends'; but move on.



She either does not know what she wants and is playing the field, or she knows exactly what she is doing and is toying with you. Think about it: If she still has feelings for her ex, she's kissing and stuff with you?



Well, you can assume that if she has feelings for you that she has no conscious against kissing and stuff with the ex and/or others.



Either way, you are on the road to wounded heart. I'd stop before it gets too painful.



I think you would be very, very foolish to try and get her back.



Wait till you meet someone who hasn't got such a muddy history with friends, ex-friends, etc.



Good luck to you, sweetie!




Just look for her and show interest in her do things to show her you wanna have some sort of close relation ship with her ! Good luck!