Sunday, November 21, 2010

How do I get myself out of this mess?

This coworker and I have been doing intimate(sexual things). Although, never had intercourse. We are not in a relationship, though I have deep feelings for him. He has a gf overseas.I also see him flirting with another girl who works at the office and I instantly get jealous. Also, the last time we hooked up was before New Year's 2009, after we hooked up, he told me he hopes I get a bf this year and that things work out for me since I told him I was going to see a counselor. Last week I wrote him a letter that I was hurt and angry and that I was going to mention it to my counselor, I will see her at the end of the month. Then last Thursday, I emailed him saying that I wasn't hurt and angry and that I hoped we could get along as coworkers. He didn't respond back and he didn't say anything to me. What should I do?How do I get myself out of this mess?
Ignore him. Plain and simple. I'm not saying be rude, just act as if NOTHING has EVER happened between the two of you. Walk around with you head high and nose in the air. CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY!!!

Act as if he has a penis growing out of his forehead. LOL! SERIOUSLY THOUGH IT WORKS. It will make you laugh to yourself causing you to have some sort of grin on your face every time you see him... This will make him wonder whats going on and will more than likely ask what's up with you. That is IF he has some sort of feelings towards you. If he doesn't ask, then he probably doesn't have any feelings... Then you can move on..

Hope this helps.
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