Sunday, November 21, 2010

What should I do about this?

I had hooked up with a coworker since I did feel a little attracted to him. We never actually had sex but we touched, caressed, and we would have dry sex. You know he would rub his private against mine. The thing is I've never been sexual with or even kissed a guy. So maybe there is something wrong with me. Anyway back in November, I emailed him telling him that this FWB is over and that I would tell HR on him if he ever suggested hooking up. Since November, I've been ignoring him completely no hello nada. Since I was so mad and hurt. Last month he went out of the country, I was actually relieved that he was gone, but then he came back last week and I kept ignoring him until yesterday. Yesterday, I saw him in the kitchen and he said hello, you know like a mechanical/ break the ice hello and I smiled and said hello and that was it. I felt completely at ease. This morning, I ran into him and said hello and he didn't say anything. I emailed him saying that I was hoping we could be on speaking terms since yesterday I felt at ease with speaking to him. He ignored my email. He actually didn't bother to open it and looked at me like a freak. I personally confronted him and he was like fine. As the afternoon progressed, I did a lot of walking by passing his desk, but I didn't bother to talk to him since I was working. As I was walking back and he was leaving he gave me a somewhat dirty rude look. I personally thought that was rude and I sent him an email stating that I thought him looking at me funny was rude and that I was hurting these past few months and that I was hoping we could get along as coworkers. Then I sent him another email that it was best that we didn't talk and that he should leave me alone and let me do my job. How can I move past this and get out and get some friends and a boyfriend? All I do is work and go to school, but I feel if I were getting out with people. This would be easier to deal with.What should I do about this?
I'm not trying to be rude, but this guy was probably into you, not just into wanting to have sex with you, he tried to reconnect with you, you can't always get what you want when you want it, sometimes it has to go their way too, and you cutting connections and him returning is not how it is supose to work he feels probably hurt that you would do that too him, and he's just doing this now because he doesn't want a repeat of what had happened.What should I do about this?
:-) COME OVER TO MY HOUSE WE CAN PLAY AND HANG OUT AND TALK ANOUT WHATEVER POPS UP!!!!!! :-)
Well, get out there, and talk to people. From Work (other people work there too..), School, etc. Also, you might have some old friends, or whatever, get in touch with them. The Best thing to do is to simply avoid this guy, just let things go. He's probably upset at you, for not talking to him for months, and suddenly wanting to be okay, and then to not interfering. Think about how you feel,first, then deal with this.
Go to a club with some friends whener your not busy
I absolutely 100% guarantee he thinks you are a complete PSYCHO. If I were you I would leave him alone before he reports you for harassment.
I take it to be that you dont know what you want.. How do you expect him to open his arms, waiting for you after what you did.. Surely, he aint happy with you.. But hey, what's done is done %26amp; life goes on...

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