Sunday, November 21, 2010

How should I let go of this?

I had hooked up with a coworker since I did feel a little attracted to him. Supposedly he has a gf but I don't know. We never actually had sex but we touched, caressed, and we would have dry sex. You know he would rub his private against mine. The thing is I've never been sexual with or even kissed a guy. So maybe there is something wrong with me. Anyway back in November, I emailed him telling him that this FWB is over and that I would tell HR on him if he ever suggested hooking up. Since November, I've been ignoring him completely no hello nada. Since I was so mad and hurt. Last month he went out of the country, I was actually relieved that he was gone, but then he came back last week and I kept ignoring him until yesterday. Yesterday, I saw him in the kitchen and he said hello, you know like a mechanical/ break the ice hello and I smiled and said hello and that was it. I felt completely at ease. This morning, I ran into him and said hello and he didn't say anything. I emailed him saying that I was hoping we could be on speaking terms since yesterday I felt at ease with speaking to him. He ignored my email. He actually didn't bother to open it and looked at me like a freak. I personally confronted him and he was like fine. As the afternoon progressed, I did a lot of walking by passing his desk, but I didn't bother to talk to him since I was working. As I was walking back and he was leaving he gave me a somewhat dirty rude look. I personally thought that was rude and I sent him an email stating that I thought him looking at me funny was rude and that I was hurting these past few months and that I was hoping we could get along as coworkers. Then I sent him another email that it was best that we didn't talk and that he should leave me alone and let me do my job. How can I move past this and get out and get some friends and a boyfriend? All I do is work and go to school, but I feel if I were getting out with people. This would be easier to deal with.

Sometimes he looks at me weird, so I don't know how he's feeling.How should I let go of this?
To be honest he was probably looking for a one night stand with no consequences, and by not letting it go you are looking crazy to him because he thought you felt the same, back off or he will continue thinking thisHow should I let go of this?
First off make up ur mind do u want him to talk to u or not? Second of all stop emailing him I'm sure h doesn't care what u think if he did hed bother to reply. Just do ur thing and let him do his. Don't rush to get a bf ull find a guy someday just enjoy being single for now
First of all, if i were u i would stop sending emails everytime he looks at u funny or says hi or whatever. Just talk to him face to face on your break or something. And if hes giving u dirty looks a lot than just ignore him..delete his email and forget him. Go out somewhere and meet new ppl, im sure u have on friend u can go out with. go to the beach (if ur by one) and just chill.. be social.
use him for money
ask if u can work different shifts, and always go out at night, go to a club, start dancing, flirt with guys around you, and ur co worker probably think ur obsessed because of the emails saying about feelings and stuff, just say screw hima nd go have some fun
Would you please go up to him and say this...''You want to hookup sometime or what?!!!'' Or you will make yourself crazy!! your not 10 anymore! at least i hope your not!?

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