How do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?
with feelings I have for a coworker. This coworker and I have been doing intimate(sexual things). Although, never had intercourse. We are not in a relationship, though I have deep feelings for him. He has a gf overseas.I also see him flirting with another girl who works at the office and I instantly get jealous. Also, the last time we hooked up was before New Year's 2009, after we hooked up, he told me he hopes I get a bf this year and that things work out for me since I told him I was going to see a counselor. Last week I wrote him a letter that I was hurt and angry and that I was going to mention it to my counselor, I will see her at the end of the month. Then last Thursday, I emailed him saying that I wasn't hurt and angry and that I hoped we could get along as coworkers. He didn't respond back and he didn't say anything to me, but I kept ignoring him since I didn't know what to doHow do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?
wow thats kinda tough! i would say that this guy is just a player! if he has a girlfriend oversees and he also flirts with another girl at work, along with doing intimate things with you, i would say he isnt worth anything. maybe you dont want a relationship with him, but even a friendship would be hard because in any type of relationship, you have to establish trust. And this guy doesnt seem very trustworthy. As far as your deep feelings for him go, i would just convince yourself that you are better than him and too good for him, which im sure you are! If he keeps ignoring you, then you probably dont mean much to him. He doesnt seem to really care about you or anyone else for that matter because of the way he is acting. You seem like a great person and you deserve someone way better! im sure a coworker relationship would also be hard to attain because he may continue to lead you on. i really hope ive helped you some! good luck!!How do I get myself out of this emotional turmoil?
get over it, move on ... he thought it was strictly fooling around since you know he has a girlfriend, all it is was that, nothing more he doesnt want to make it into anything im sure he wants to forget it ever happened, stop trying to be cool with him, im sure he doesnt care about your feelings, get over it, hes a jerk, let him do it to someone else
i also got into a relationship with a coworker , i feel for him he he felt the same for me . we instantly got in to a relationship , sexually. im sorry i did . he was married i knew that , but we still continued to see each other almost a whole year it still hurts . he never left his wife my boyfriend and i split after way before that he was cheating with women while i was at work the same as my ex boyfriend dint do it you ll be hurting yourself . now im with someone that sells on ebay and no job .has a file cabinet full of cameron Dias , he makes me feel like **** about myself , good luck
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