Sunday, November 14, 2010

How should i get over my anger?

I had hooked up with a coworker since I did feel a little attracted to him. Supposedly he has a gf but I don't know. We never actually had sex but we touched, caressed, and we would have dry sex. You know he would rub his private against mine. The thing is I've never been sexual with or even kissed a guy. So maybe there is something wrong with me. Anyway back in November, I emailed him telling him that this FWB is over and that I would tell HR on him if he ever suggested hooking up. Since November, I've been ignoring him completely no hello nada. Since I was so mad and hurt. Last month he went out of the country, I was actually relieved that he was gone, but then he came back last week and I kept ignoring him until yesterday. Yesterday, I saw him in the kitchen and he said hello, you know like a mechanical/ break the ice hello and I smiled and said hello and that was it. I felt completely at ease. This morning, I ran into him and said hello and he didn't say anything. I emailed him saying that I was hoping we could be on speaking terms since yesterday I felt at ease with speaking to him. He ignored my email. He actually didn't bother to open it and looked at me like a freak. I personally confronted him and he was like fine. As the afternoon progressed, I did a lot of walking by passing his desk, but I didn't bother to talk to him since I was working. As I was walking back and he was leaving he gave me a somewhat dirty rude look. I personally thought that was rude and I sent him an email stating that I thought him looking at me funny was rude and that I was hurting these past few months and that I was hoping we could get along as coworkers. Then I sent him another email that it was best that we didn't talk and that he should leave me alone and let me do my job. How can I move past this and get out and get some friends and a boyfriend? All I do is work and go to school, but I feel if I were getting out with people. This would be easier to deal with.

Sometimes he looks at me weird, so I don't know how he's feeling. How should I get over my anger?How should i get over my anger?
You don't let some guy feel you up and hump all over you if you're a respectable person. Because look what you get. He wasn't even your boyfriend and you were letting him have his way with you. Now, if you knew he had a girlfriend, you were just asking for trouble. You had every right to inform him that the fooling around was over. But then threatening him to report him to HR was sort of out of line. Because you were a consenting participant, and he hadn't done anything for you to tell him that. If after you told him it was over, he kept bugging you to do it again, then you could have told him you would report him. What were you so mad and hurt about? That he had a girlfriend? I don't get it. If you're going to be on a professional terms with him from now on, you have to stop with the games and the emails, and the looks and the wondering what that look meant, etc. Stop acting like you're his girlfriend. You should be able to meet people at school. Don't you have any friends? Just get over it and like you said, ';do your job';. They aren't paying you to fool around and create drama with your co-workers.How should i get over my anger?
Forget about it and move on! Remember the population of males on Earth is over 3 billion. about 1 billion should be in a date-worthy age for you. Even if 99.99% are taken or worthless jerks, that still leaves about 100,000 qualified males for you. If you know what you are looking for, you should be able to find one soon!
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